While not an outcome most of us want to
consider when getting married, divorce is a common occurrence today.
There are 1.4 million divorces in the United States each year. Nearly
50% of all first marriages end in divorce, while 60% of second marriages
do. The good news is that there are more alternative methods to reach a
settlement today than ever before.
Pro Se - Representing yourself
If you do not retain an attorney to represent you in Court, it is called Pro Se. Many people
choose this option, but may still consult with an attorney, CDFA, CPA,
divorce coach or other professional on particular aspects. See our
benefits page for information on how a CDFA
can be helpful. Also, those who do not hire an attorney often will use a
mediator to help them and their spouse come to an agreement which they
can then file with the Court.
Traditional Litigation - Retaining an
Attorney to Represent You
If you retain an attorney, he/she will assist you throughout the
process, and will represent you to your spouse's attorney and to the
Court. You or your attorney may still want or need assistance from
a CDFA, CPA, CFI, Business Valuer, or other professionals. See our page
on litigation support.
Mediation
A neutral person facilitates discussions between you and your spouse to
help you reach agreement using "interest based" negotiations. You may be
represented by an attorney during the mediation process. If you
cannot agree on one or more issues, then you may need to go to Court to have
the Judge decide. For more information about mediation, see our
mediation page.
Collaborative Divorce
Collaborative divorce is an approach which allows you to retain
attorneys, but you each agree with your respective attorney that if your
negotiations with your spouse break down, that your attorneys will not
represent you in court. This simple agreement frees your attorneys
from preparing for a possible Court hearing and allows them to work with
you and your spouse and their attorney to reach agreements that are in
the best of interest of both of you and your children. Jointly
appointed financial specialists are often used to assist with
financial analysis and mediation of the financial issues. See our
page on collaborative divorce and the
collaborative web sites on our links page for
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